The fear of rejection is nothing new for men it seems like the biggest challenge for a man is that first approach if she doesn’t like it he will feel rejected, and my question to you why does this happen to you automatically without even questioning what is happening?.
The reason for this is you are not thinking in the moment, you really are on auto pilot, so your brain and your experiences have been judged as rejection based on bad social programming. I want you to know that bad is not really seen as bad and good is not really seen as good, look at good and bad for a moment like positive and negative from a scientific point of view you cant have one with out the other, if this is so and you judge something as really bad then it makes sense over a long period of time that you see a woman as rejecting you bad. It is called emotional learning and, because you have not sat down and really contemplated what I am telling you, you have judge this as something that you can’t help. The fear of rejection in men I believe and know to be is an illusion, women find it funny that you are afraid to approach they don’t understand it.
I believe with the correct knowledge and training you can overcome any fear, I have laboured and thought about how I can get men to overcome their fear of rejection. I remember once Mystery another famous PUA who I learnt a lot from when I was starting out said that you never really get over the fear of rejection you just need to learn how to handled it, through methods like the 3 second rule which means you approach the group of women or the one woman you want within 3 seconds before your emotions and fears kick in. This will help but you will still have times when it will surprise you. I believe you can clear the fear of rejection entirely once and for all. After applying every technique and line that teachers and pickup gurus would tell me and having lots of success I still knew that I needed to work on deeper levels of my own personal reality, this is where all my fears of rejections disappeared and I cant really remember the last time I experienced it when I approached a woman, in fact I cant remember if a woman has flat out said NO even if I could tell they weren’t that keen I still did ok by the end of the interaction and was able to walk away at least with a phone number. I discovered that the fear of rejection in my self came from a lack of self love, because I didn’t love my self I use to think how is anyone going to love me, it became a vicious circle, because all I could think about if I don’t love and feel worthy of attracting a woman how is any woman going to like me for me is this starting to make sense?
I will never forget one night out in an exotic dancer club. One of the hottest women in there approached me and started chatting to me and a good friend of mine who was having some trouble with women, my friend was trying to bounce back to attract some new women. It was at that point I asked this beautiful woman about the fear of rejection, I asked her I know your the best looking woman in here you have to approach customers all night, and work the men but I wanted to ask you do you feel rejection when a customer turns you down even though you may just be trying to earn a living?, and she said absolutely she said all the time I feel it, but it’s just a part of the job, then I asked her do you think most of the women in here as beautiful as they are would feel rejection from customers the way you do, and she said with out a doubt, my friend almost fell over because he was dealing with the fear of rejection when approaching women. I can assure you by the time we walked out of that place my friend was a changed man.
I hope that you can benefit from reading my blog and remember next time you are out in a social or a public gathering everyone feels rejection not just men, to give an insight to my personal opinion about the fear of rejection from women. I don’t get rejected by women I just find out if they have good taste in men, women don’t reject men you reject your self, and the only way you will get over your fear of rejection is when you start to love your self
Happy sarging Frosty AKA Heath Frost
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